They are there to help you through your tough times but you should not rely on them as your only support. In some cases, the decision to separate or divorce is a mutual one. A couple decides that their relationship has come to an end; they are able to grieve together and move on with their lives. Unfortunately, these couples are in the minority. If you and your ex-partner are having problems working through the issues surrounding your separation or divorce, there is help available.

There is no shame in asking for help. Many Relationship Education services offer programs on rebuilding your life after your relationship has ended. These programs take people through the grieving process, give tips and support for the different stages people experience provide networks for individuals and help them to move on in their lives.

When you apply for a divorce, the Family Law Act does not take account of the causes of marriage breakdown. It only requires that the marriage has broken down irretrievably. If you are married and you have been separated for at least twelve months, you can apply to the Family Court for a divorce (called a dissolution of marriage).

If you have been married for a period of less than two years, you will normally require a counselling certificate before applying to the Court for a divorce. If you have children, the Court has to be satisfied that you have made proper arrangements for your children’s welfare before granting a divorce. Divorce marks the legal end of your marriage. However, your divorce will not settle the parenting of your children, child support, and the division of the property of your marriage. These require separate proceedings.

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